Serving AND Receiving

In our Two Minute Clinic yesterday we discussed a very important life and tennis principle – serving and receiving.

We started by remembering The Last Supper, the last meal Jesus had with His disciples before His crucifixion. We remembered the first thing He did… washed the feet of His disciples. I asked you to imagine that you were sitting at that table and Jesus washed your feet. How would you feel. One of you said, “Good”. Another one of you said, “Happy”. Another one said, “Humble.” Good, happy, and humble is probably what He had in mind.

Then I asked you, “What was Jesus doing for His disciples?” You said rightly, “Serving.” The Bible says that He did not come to be served, but TO SERVE. And as His followers we are to do likewise.

The next scene we visited was a very sophisticated dinner party with Jesus as the guest of honor. While the guests were mingling before dinner a suspicious looking woman walked through the front door, went to where Jesus was sitting, and began washing His feet with her hair. It didn’t take long for the dinner guests to recognize the woman as one of the town prostitutes. Needless to say the guests were scandalized and demanding that Jesus rebuke the woman and send her away. Instead Jesus allowed her to continue washing his feet.

Then I asked you, “What was Jesus doing?” You said rightly, “Receiving.” Though the Bible says it is better to give than to receive it does not say that receiving is not important. Jesus did both.

I also asked you if you had ever met anyone who was only good at serving. Some of you said that you had. It’s pretty frustrating being around someone like that. I asked if you had ever been around someone was only good at receiving. Many of you said that you had. It’s pretty frustrating being around someone like that too.

Serving and receiving is a natural part of every interaction and relationship. It feels unnatural if one person in the relationship is only serving OR receiving instead of serving AND receiving. Like Jesus, we need to excel at both; serving and receiving.

The very same is true in tennis. Some players only excel at receiving. David Ferrer, the Spanish grinder comes to mind. He has one of the very best receiving games in tennis, but his serving game is limited. As a result his potential has a very strict limit. Some players only excel at serving. John Isner, the American bomber comes to mind. His service game is one of the very best in tennis, but his receiving game is weak. As a result, his potential has a very strict limit.

For us to live in our full potential as tennis players and as disciples we must master both – serving and receiving.

Prayer
Dear Lord, like You, please help me to lead with service and master receiving as well.

Drill

Serving and Receiving. Place two receivers on one side of the net; one on the deuce side and the other on the ad side. Place return targets on the other side of the net. Place two servers on the other side of the net. One serving to the deuce side and the other to the ad side. Place serve targets in the service boxes. Let each player serve/return 10 to 20 balls and rotate.


Verses

John 13:3-10 
Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into his hands, and that he had come from God and was going back to God, 4 rose from supper. He laid aside his outer garments, and taking a towel, tied it round his waist. 5 Then he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples' feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped round him. 6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, do you wash my feet?” 7 Jesus answered him, “What I am doing you do not understand now, but afterwards you will understand.”8 Peter said to him, “You shall never wash my feet.” Jesus answered him, “If I do not wash you, you have no share with me.” 9 Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and my head!” 10 Jesus said to him,“The one who has bathed does not need to wash, except for his feet,[a] but is completely clean. And you[b] are clean, but not every one of you.”

John 12:3
Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus' feet and wiped his feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.